StReSs WeEkEnD!

Macam shai kata aritu kan, lots of things happened last week. Malam lepas balik dari Teruja Gathering tu macam biasalah, do a little bit of housework bila Ramadhan dah tido. My hubby pun dah balik tapi cam biasa la, dia buat hal dia sendiri. Baru duduk sebelah, tak dan buat apa pun, dah kene tegur, tepila sket, abang tengah sibuk ni... ceh.... hempuk dengan file tu kang baru tau. Sakit atila... bukan nak mintak apa pun, shai ni kan manja sket... sajalah nak dok sebelah lendek2 pun salah? Tak paham dengan jantan ni kan... so mengenangkan hati yang bengkak tu kan, pi la dok kat hall tengok tv. Kotla dia nak mai pujuk ka apa ka... finally bila kita jenguk dia lena plak dah.... eeee.... geramnyeeee....

Takpela... kita pun nak eksen gak, kononnya.... by the time my friend sms me... apa lagi, tutup lampu, baring kat sofa... ngeeee.... phonebanking session :P About 3am, my sis called. Dia cakap my mom muntah darah. Terus tukar baju, capai kunci kereta, terus drive ke rumah my mom and send her to Hospital Ampang.

Sampai sana, get all the necessaries done, lama tunggu. Imagine we reach about 4am, kol 6am baru dia dapat rawatan. Maybe for them, this is not so serious, or perhaps memang tak cukup kaki dan tangan yang nak bergerak. I'm fine with that... government hospital kan... macam tu la.. About 5am, my sis call. Ingatkan dia nak tanya pasal my mom, rupanya dia sibuk pasal dia nak pergi keje! She starts to nag at me, how come it took so long? Ayah tak sepatutnya ikut ko, ni anak aku dengan adik ni sapa nak jaga.... WTF??? Helloooo..... tu yang tengah sakit tu, IS YOUR MOTHER ok? Your dad is her husband, tak paham?? No wonder la ko jadi Lady J. Memang patut pun jadi Lady J... ha mulalah naik hangen ni... tapi still sabar lagi. Then I told her, see what will happen, nanti 6am i will call her.

6am, my mom tengah having treatment dalam wad A&E tu. She called me, asked whether dah boleh balik ke belom. Told her mom is inside, doctor tengah examine. Suddenly dia naik hangen plak. Can you imagine, dah la shai ni kepala tingtong, berjaga dari siang, tak tido lagi.. dok kat hospital without doing anything selain dari tunggu... suddenly this lady boleh mentioned pasal dia tak cukup tidur, terganggu pasal my mom muntah darah, ni nak pergi keje tapi takda orang jaga the kids. Lepas tu boleh tanya pulak kat shai, la ni kau nak buat camana? You tell me what should I do?? Dah dia tanya shai kan, so shai mention kat dia, ok if I'm in your shoes this is what I do, I will call my boss, or my colleague, if I can't get them, I'll send sms to them, I'm on EL. Then about 8-9am, I will call the office inform the management again, that I'm on EL due to family matter. Explain that my mom is in the A&E, I need to take a day off. Betul tak? That is what she supposed to do.... Unfortunately, she get upset, you didn't get it right?? This is my responsibility, there are no supervisor in-charge this morning, if I don't go, then no one to assigned the staffs bla bla bla.... Helloo.... derang tu tak mati dan takkan mati kalau ko tak datang ok... somebody have to take care of it. That is the Manager's responsible. Oooo ok... so kalau derang fired me camana? Ingat senang ke nak dapat kerja?? Boleh tak dia tanya soklan bodoh camtu?? My dear sis, management won't terminate you without reason, ingat senang-senang ke boleh terminate especially when it comes to emergency cases like this? Masalah dengan my sis ni, orang dolu-dolu kata bodoh sombong, bodoh tak bertempat ni la dia rupanya... bila orang cakap camtu, dia bley kata plak kita cakap memanglah senang, anything happen dah tentu shai ni tak amik kisah. Stupid woman! Time ni memang dah menyirap dah... otak anda la! Aku tau la apa aku cakap, kalau derang buang ko pun, ko bley fight and saman balik. Dah cakap camtu pun takmo terima gak, dia kata plak shai ni memandai-mandai jer. La...shai taula kan, dah tu kerja shai ari-ari... oit mak jan, aku ni HR la bongok... Finally dah tak kuasa lah nak bergado depan hospital tu kan, so I told her kalau nak pergi kerja sangat, pergilah... biar jela budak-budak tu kat rumah tido. But don't asked me to send my dad home just because nak lepas diri sendiri. Then my dad called her, talked to her and she decide to take EL (boleh la plak... dasar mengada-ngada!) but she needs to have a proof from the hospital, ok that one can be done. So I approach the nurse and asked for the letter, according to them they can issue it under my name not my sis because she's not in the hospital with my mom. Okey, takpela... about 7 something, shai bawak my dad gi breakfast, then we discuss what to do. So my dad said, lepas ni you send me back to the hospital, then you go and get your sis IC and we try to get it for her. Just give her IC if the nurse ask for it. Ok deal. So lepas breakfast, I send my dad to the hospital back, drive all the way to my mom's place just to get my sis's IC. Sampai kat sana, dia marah-marah.... suruh shai turun dari kereta, masuk dalam rumah...?? OMG... I just need that damn IC la, what for nak masuk, keluar kejap jerla... dia bising sebab dia tengah sibuk jemur kain, and shai ni tambah susahkan dia nak hulur-hulur IC. Dah la tu terjerit-jerit depan pintu rumah macam shai ni minta sedekah pulak dah. Great! I'm pissed off. But shai ni memang bukan jenis nak terpekik terlolong camtu. Shai kalau marah memang shai diam, angkat kaki blah. So that's what I did, tengah dia menjerit-jerit tu, I just reverse my car, get out from there. Amik ko! Memang tak patah balik dah... ko jeritlah situ sampai putus anak tekak... don't waste my time! Tau pulak call me, sms me suruh patah balik.... sorry ek... tak layan! Pandai-pandailah nanti.... Since shai tak layan, dia call my dad mengadu... my dad pun takle buat apa ek... kesian kat my dad, dah la wife sakit, anak-anak bergaduh plak... feel sorry about that but I just can't help it. My dad tak salahkan shai, dia tau shai hilang sabar. So dia suruh my sis mintak tolong jiran antar dia ke hospital kejap and get the letter by herself. The doctor can't detact any problem, so they refer my mom to GH, so I bring her back home about 12noon. My hubby plak demam panas. Balik rumah ni macam tongkang pecah! Ntah apalah budak-budak ni buat.. and my hubby, takle ke tolong I jemur kain yang dalam mesin tu? *sigh*

About 7.30pm, my dad called again. My mom muntah darah lagi...a lot! So shai terus start kete and bawak dia pergi HKL. Still, they can't do anything because they don't have any ENT equipment in A&E. But they've tried to stop the bleeding and I bring her back, that was about 12midnite dah. I took 1 day off the next day, and bring my mom to see the ENT specialist in HKL. Tengah tunggu tu, bersembur lagi darah... kelam kabut ENT clinic tu jadinya...ngeh ngeh ngeh.. at least ada hikmah... cepat la sket dapat perhatian or else berjanggut tunggu tu.... kekekeke. According to the doctor, ada luka kat hidung dia, besides she ada darah tinggi so she can't get stress, this are common things happen to old people yang lama ada darah tinggi, bla bla bla... Nothing much can do, cuma boleh bagi ubat sket, but this might happen again, so the doctor teach me on the first aid.

Balik tu, dok jap kat rumah, buat apa yang patut dan tertunggak, then my friend sms me, kata dia ada appointment kat TTDI, so if I'm ok perhaps we can meet somewhere in Bangsar. Shai pun dah so stress dengan everything happened during the weekends. Since my mom dah nampak ok sket, shai tengok my hubby masih tido lagi.. so I told him, ingat nak keluar kejapla jumpa kawan, is it ok with you? So dia cakap pergilah... siap-siap and off to Bangsar. Meet him about 5pm, perrgghh hujan lebat giler masa tu... we lepak kat starbucks, surfing internet sama-sama, borak-borak..that's it! Then kol 7pm, dia teman shai sampai kat kereta and shai pun baliklah... Sampai kat rumah, tengok-tengok my hubby tengah sibuk belek file dia. Uiks.... dah sihat ke ni, boleh belek file plak... tanyalah dah sihat ke? So dia cakap bolehlah... ok takpela... after a while, lepas mandi and anak-anak pun dah tidur, i saw him watched tv in my room so duduklah sebelah kan... orang tu buat tatau jer... macam tak wujud plak rasa.. senyap jer... bila shai pusing-pusing tengok, la dah tidur dah... *sigh*

Pagi esoknya, dia bangun sebab shift morning. Shai sendiri pun tengah siap-siap nak kerja. Suddenly dia mengamuk, cari apatah... bising dengan budak-budak tu... tapi kan... suddenly I heard he said something yang sebenarnya nak bagi kat shai tapi indirectly la... so shai tegurlah apalah pagi-pagi ni mengamuk, cuba bawak bersabar. Agaknya memang dia tunggu shai bersuara ek, dia sembur terus kat shai. Awak pun samalah! Saya ni ada bini macam takda bini! Then dia terus kuar rumah...shai terdiamlah... apahal mamat ni, pagi-pagi nak angin plak. I guess dia bengangla kot pasal masa dia demam tu, I'm not around with him. Tapi kena pahamlah, my mom pun sakit... if boleh belah badan tu dah lama belah dah, kiri with my mom, kanan with him. If only I could! Balik rumah malam tu, when I saw him watching TV kat hall tu, shai tu duduk lah sebelah... kang kata lah tak nak company dia plak kan... baru lah dok sebelah kejap, hug dia, you know what he said? Abang demam ni.... tak laratlah... Tension tak?? I just walk off.... masuk bilik, tutup pintu and zzzzzzZZZzzzz....